You know the desperation of trying to make a baby, don't you?  The thing that makes you go on internet search binges.  The thing that keeps you awake at night making lists and trying to figure out what your next moves are. 

 

Ugh!  This chapter is all about quieting the monster inside of us that says Give. Me. Baby. NOW!!!  It's about the ways desperation actually does the opposite of what we'd like it to do, as well as the ways in which (gulp!) I messed this up royally in my own journey.

 

The last part of the chapter are concrete, actionable steps you can do right now to quiet your own desperation monster.